reassociate is about the things that shape relationships, intimacy and how you see yourself and others. The stuff that most people avoid looking at because it’s uncomfortable and the stuff that actually matters because of it.

I write about partner selection, sexuality, family dynamics, emotional patterns and the psychology underneath all of it. All from personal experience and from years of paying attention to how people and relationships actually work.

If you’re here for comfortable answers this is the wrong place but if you want someone who writes what he actually thinks without softening it for applause, you’ll find that here.

The writing is free for now. Paid subscribers get the pieces that go further than what belongs on a public feed, plus discounts on future books and offerings.